Monday, November 25, 2013

RYNFIELD WEEK 2



Thank you guys so much for all of the letters and emails, it is really nice to be able to hear from everyone. I got my birthday package on Friday, thanks so much everybody! I also got the letters from most of you guys at home. So the way mail works for us is a little weird, basically I won't get your letters and things when they arrive in South Africa. The way that is works is that it all gets sent to the mission office and then once a week the Area Presidents deliver the mail to the ZL's (Zone leaders) and then they give it out to the missionaries in their zones on Fridays. Also sometimes when you send packages the postage doesn't always cover the full amount so i have to pay the difference. Like the package i just got cost me 33 rand...which is like $3 USD so it isn't a big deal. But seriously thank you guys so much, I love the letters, I save all of them in my desk drawer, and I will work on getting some out to you guys at home. This Friday i will be picking up all of your Christmas presents and I will ship some letters home with them.
Last week I forgot to tell you guys that our neighbors have a pet pig, it is this little black thing that is just always running around in there back yard. I also forgot to tell you guys about some of the other Elders in our district that we hang out with. Elder Mcallister and Elder Neuenschwander are some of my favorite missionaries here. We share the care with them so we see them all the time. Mcallister is really goofy and fun, and me and Elder Neunschwander are basically the exact same person so we get along really well (He is from Provo, not germany but I think he did live there for a while).
This week I got to go on exchanges with the Zone Leaders so I spent the night in Springs with Elder Tag (He is from Zimbabwe and i can't really say his name well so i just call him Elder Tag). Springs was really cool actually, but it is CRAZY. It basically has town, township and city all in the same area. We got to teach in township which was a nice experience, they are such humble and accepting people. We went tracting in Town and got chased by dogs and yelled at by angry Afrikaners (whites). And then in the city we got to teach these awesome guys names Mike, Freddy, Zabron and Lovejoy. Basically I was the only white guy in the whole apartment complex haha, the place was huge too. I haven't been in too many apartment complexes but the few i have been in remind me of what you would expect to see in New York i guess you could say. They are basically just huge mazes with tons of stairs and tons of people living there. They aren't all that clean either and that is all I will say for mom's sake haha. I also got to drive around the city and that was a weird experience too. The traffic is really heavy and there are just tons of people walking around. We ended up driving right through the middle of a taxi hub (i don't really know what to call it, it is just where all the taxis-15 passenger vans-are parked and leave from. Here I am driving on the left side of the road through heavy traffic, with taxis darting in and out everywhere (they drive however they want here haha) and then there are seriously probably hundreds of people just walking through traffic and everywhere else. It was fun though and i really like getting to see new areas.
I love you guys and miss you guys so much, hopefully everyone gets better. Last couple of things, basically everything mom read about people going to the bathroom everywhere is true it is really weird haha. Also i think it is possible for places to be uphill both ways in South Africa because we are honestly always riding our bikes uphill and sometimes through crazy traffic too haha. Overall though South Africa is awesome, honestly sometimes I forget that I am here but we will just be walking through a huge field or see crazy animals and it will hit me that I am not in the US anymore. The best part about South Africa so far has just been that on a daily basis I see something that leaves me thinking where the heck am I, like yesterday i saw this guy pushing another guy through the McDonalds drive-thru in a shopping cart with three wheels. Africa is crazy...love you guys.
Dad- We might actually get to go golfing soon, hopefully in Pretoria, it is way cheap there (like 200 rand for four people with carts). We actually have a golf course in our area and i wish you could see the animals that live on it, there are these crazy birds and almost like a mix of a deer and a gazelle (Springboks).
Mom-Love you mom :)
Logan- Congrats on the job and good job on the ACT man. Thanks for the birthday letter. Miss you bro.
Taylor- I kinda of already answered this, but they do have McDonald's here haha and i found out that Romans pizza (I think i told you about it last email) is actually Little Caesars. 
Abby-I hope everything is going good for you, I love your emails. You are my favorite dork haha miss you abby.
Madi- Thank you so much for your card and letter, I am keeping it forever. I love that you wrote the address yourself.
Lindsey- You are awesome! I can't believe that you can read in chinese!
Squib- Still the cutest, and I love that you bark at the Lizard haha  

Monday, November 18, 2013

FIRST WEEK IN RYNFIELD





 Hey Everybody.


Sorry to write all of you on Monday now, my p-day has changed so it will be on Mondays from here on out. I love you all and miss everyone, thanks for the pictures i hope everyone is doing well. Right now I am sitting in a email shop in Bononi (right next to our area). It cost 16 rand for an Hour and a half, which is only about $1.60 USD.


So i am finally out of the MTC, I left this past Tuesday so i have been in the field for about a week. My first area is a place called Rynfield. It is actually a very nice area. It is rough though. The work is incredibly slow , we can't really even tract because everyone has these fences that go all the way around their house. Some of them are even electric and EVERYONE has huge dogs. We do the best we can though and the ward is really receptive to us. We have a dinner appointment just about every night, so much for losing weight. My very first night here I had McDonald's for lunch (it is a little different but pretty similar) and the member we had a dinner appointment with fed us pizza (it was from this pizza place here called Roman's, again similar but different like the toppings were bacon and avocado...i just don't chew here and don't question what I am eating anymore). Like I said the area is actually really nice, but it is still incredibly humbling to be here. By St. George standards all of South Africa can't compare, but our area is safe and relatively clean (mom can stop worrying now). Part of our area does extend into a township. So basically there are three types of areas: Town, Township, and squatter camps. Rynfield is a town, which like the majority of towns is mostly white, with nice homes and fences. However, they are not very receptive to the gospel and the work is very tedious and really just comes down to happening upon potential investigators. Now townships i only have a little bit of experience with, but like i said we do have a part of one in our area. They are made up of very small homes, much humbler people, dirt roads, and mostly black residents. They don't have much but are much more receptive to our gospel message, and the people there are some of my favorite people i have ever met. They are just really happy and funny, most of the time with them I am just laughing because i have no idea what is going on. There are 11 different languages and not everyone speaks great English so I am still figuring everything out. So far I haven't had too much trouble, and i haven't had to eat anything too weird. I have had to wash my hands in a bowl and eat with my hands quite a bit though. At first it was weird but you just kind of get used to it. Here they eat this stuff called "Pap" (pronounced pop but i am not sure how to spell it). Picture really thick cream of wheat that you eat with yourt hands, it almost has no taste so i can handle it. They also feed us a lot of rice, which is a little different than the rice back home. Plus there is always some kind of meat, I think it is usually chicken or some kind of beef but i can't really tell so i just eat it and be happy. My favorite thing here so far though is the juice...seriously so good. They sell most things here (juices and soda's) in concentrate form, so you have to dilute everything.Squatter camps are basically huts made out of anything they can find. Definitely the saddest areas in South Africa, but I have only driven by them, never been inside one yet.


I got to drive on the left side of the road for the first time this week. It was an interesting experience haha, it wasn't too bad though because the steering wheel is on the left side too, so as long as you think about it you drive fine. Everything here is in kilometers which I still haven't figured out. Also gas is called petrol here and is measured in liters which is new. I Actually really like driving, because for the other half of the week we are on bikes. Biking is fun for the exercise but it is so hot and our area is so big we seriously bike forever between appointments. Plus everyone drives crazy so most of the time I feel like we are about to get ran over haha. It is fun though, and seriously everyone we meet asks us for our bikes which is funny too. I love the little kids here, they are awesome. I will play soccer with them and race them on my bike and they love it. They are pretty funny too, they make fun of my accent. While I am talking about them i should mention Joyce. She is an African woman who lives in the township in our area. Basically she is grandma Taylor, but black haha. She is super funny and her grand kids live with her. She is a recent convert and we have been over to see her a few times.


My companion/Trainer is named Elder Wheatley. He is actually a good guy. I get along pretty well with him, we are a little different though and we are still getting used to each other. He is from Brigham City Utah so we relate pretty well. He will be my companion for the next two transfers (6 weeks each) but we get along well so no worries there. He is basically as new as me though, he has been out for like 4 months but to be honest i feel like we are just kind of making it up as we go haha but we will get on top of things and get the work rolling in rynfield soon. I live in a four man flat, and we are all American. Actually our whole district is, to be totally honest i think it is because our area is kinda racist. A member actually told me that Malloy is a Zulu surname (spelt Maloi i think) and he was worried i would be black, but he can see the lord has been good to us. I didn't really know what to say so it was a little awkward haha. The member is a good guy though. I miss everyone back home and i am sorry my email is a little bit all over the place, but i have a lot to say and not a lot of time.


Mom-Love you, thanks for the pictures...please send me some mission approved music, i am sick of mo-tab. Our President is pretty lax on the music, basically as long as it is conducive to the spirit it is okay. I am trying to find some here but it is hard. Check out the bands, The Arrows and The Lower Lights for me please, thanks a ton.


Dad- Things are good here...They love soccer (blacks) and Rugby (whites) so that is about it as far as sports go. We are playing rugby with the ward tonight for p day sports so it should be fun.


Logan- Did you get a car yet? Way to not work on Sundays, thanks for being a great little brother. Miss you man, you would love it here. Don't flunk out of High School for me.


Taylor- Giraffe it is, I will be back at the temple next week so i will pick it up from the distribution center. Love you and miss you.


Abby- You should see the moon here, the sky is so big. Plus the weather is crazy. It rains so much this time of the year, and the day before i came it hailed really hard and the pieces were literally the size of baseballs.


Madi- I miss you Madi moo, how is school? I hope you are doing good...will you draw me a picture of the family and send it to me in the mail?


Lindsey- How is my room? I hope you like it, i miss you pim. Be good for mom and dad. Draw me a picture of jello and send it with Madi's.


Sidney- keep that picture of me, i hope you will still remember me when i get home. Love you squib.



Friday, November 15, 2013

MTC Depature - Mission Home Arrival

We received this bitter sweet note from Sister Reber at the MTC today:

"The Elders all left today for the Mission Field. The MTC is empty. There is no laughter in the halls.
I miss them already!  I wish I could go into the field with them and document their missions.

Last night we had a very tender, tearful Testimony meeting.  They have really bonded as brothers and
it has been a joy to watch this happen."

So...Our Elder is off to serve the people of South Africa! 

 President Omer, Elder Connor Malloy, Sister Omer


 Elder Malloy and his new companion






We received this letter below from the Mission President. It contains information on where to send letters to Connor: 


15 November 2013

Dear Brother and Sister Malloy,

I am pleased to inform you that your son, Elder Connor Lawrence Malloy, has arrived in the South Africa Johannesburg Mission and he is doing wonderfully.  We are delighted to have him serving with us in the Mission.  Elder Malloy will serve initially in the Rynfield Area of the Benoni Zone. His companion and trainer is Elder -----, from Brigham City, Utah. 

Uplifting and supportive letters from home are important to missionaries.  We encourage you to write or e-mail your son weekly.  His mailing address throughout his mission will be -                           connor.malloy@myldsmail.net. In fact email communications are preferred.

For Letters Sent Through Pouch:  Letters using the Church’s pouch system are limited to a single sheet of paper, folded into thirds and taped on the top edge only.  No envelopes, no pictures, no cards, etc are allowed. Pouch mail uses US postage.

                  Elder Connor Malloy                                                South Africa Johannesburg Mission
                   P. O. Box 30150
                   Salt Lake City, UT  84130-0150
                                                                         For Packages and Letters sent through Postal Service
             Elder Connor Malloy
             South Africa Johannesburg Mission
             Private Bag X4
             Ansfrere 1711, South Africa

Packages should be labeled “Missionary Supplies” and valued less than $40.00 to avoid high custom charges.  For secure items please use FedEx and the physical address:  3 Phillips Avenue, Discovery 1709, South Africa.

We appreciate your support of your missionary and thank you for sharing him with the South Africa Johannesburg Mission.  I have included a picture of your missionary with Sister Omer and myself.

Sincerely,


S. Craig Omer, President
South Africa Johannesburg Mission

November 9th - Happy 19th Birthday Elder Malloy

Happy Birthday Elder Malloy. We kept with tradition (as hard as that was) and took the family to Red Robin for your "Birthday Dinner".

Ding Dong!
Sunday night we hear the door bell ring and realize that we have a visitor at our door.The South Africa MTC Presidents' daughter actually turns out to be a neighbor! She lives a couple of blocks from us and stopped by to show us this picture of Connor that her Mom (Sister Reber) sent to her. What are the odds? Amazing family! We are so grateful for them.  

Today the MTC Choir performed at three local wards....during their Sacrament Meetings.
The MTC Choir sang "Hope of Israel" with Elder Holloway conducting and Elder Labrum at the piano.
The soloists were:  Elder Lawson, Kibirango, Packard and Cahill.
It was wonderful, impressive and really brought the Spirit.  Just seeing the 23 Elders walk into the meeting
was powerful.  The Elders are so good and trying so hard to do everything right!  The chapel is hallowed by their
very presense.  EVERY Elder sang....and sang well.

Happy Birthday...


 Saturday night we had a birthday party for Elder Malloy.  We had a group of Elders play "happy birthday" on the chimes.
Then we had Elder Rizk sing to him in German, Elder Kibirango and Elder Nasibu sing to him in Luganda, and Elder Bomba sing to him in Shona.  We all sang to Elder Malloy in English.  We had cake and ice cream to celebrate Elder Malloy's 19th birthday.  The photos will
give you a feel for the fun time it was.  It was certainly unlike any party he has ever had before.


















We are filled with gratitude for being blessed with an awesome birthday boy! we love you son:-)

November 8th, 2013

We received some welcomed news and pictures form the MTC and our beloved Sister Reber.

Dinner time and a new experience with South African Culture... 

 

We had "pap" for dinner.  It is ground white corn and looks a little like mashed potatoes.
Our African Elders were happy to demonstrate how to roll it into a ball with his fingers and
then eat it with your hands.  You can see from the photos who were excited, curious, or nervous to try it. It was a fun experience.

 The Elders had 30 minutes of service at the MTC today.
They washed the MTC van, swept the walks and dug up the
sand in the volleyball court.  They were willing workers.

 Several days a week, the Elders have sports from 3:30 in the afternoon until 4:30.
Then they clean up for dinner by 5:00.  This group of Elders play soccer together.
A few play basketball and some pass around a rugby ball.  It is a nice change of
pace for them.



Thursday, November 7, 2013

Week One

Dear family,
Thanks so much for all of your emails, I miss all of you guys so much and it is great to hear from home. I only have one hour of email time, so it is easiest if i just send like a long detailed message of what I have been doing and general stuff to dad and he forwards it out to everybody. Seriously so much to say that I don't know where to begin. I guess I'll just start with my companion, Elder Kibirango. So he is actually a really good guy, he is 24 years old and is a fairly recent convert to the church. He is actually a High School teacher back in Uganda, but left his job to serve a mission. He speaks English guys haha but he does have a crazy accent so it took me a few days to really be able to really understand him, he has trouble understanding the American Accent but I Think we have both got it down now. He also speaks another language that i can't understand (that is what he taught back in Uganda). So He has about 20 brothers and sisters...Polygamy is common in Africa so it isn't weird that his dad has four wives. I have a couple of funny stories about him, like i made him his first peanut butter and jelly sandwich ever the other day and now he seriously eats like 3 a day. I also gave him one of my watches because he didn't have one and we have been getting along alright besides like a couple of little things. The MTC is kinda rough because the days are so long, like we seriously are practicing teaching or studying doctrine for like 13 hours a day. We do get an hour on most days to go play sports, which is so nice just to have that little break. I used to play basketball, but now i play soccer with the Africans which is awesome. It is just a park that we play at so sometimes there are other people there but it is fun to get to know them. Sorry my email is all over the place but like i said i only have so long and i have so much to talk to you guys about. I got to go to the Jo-burg temple which was seriously incredible. It is the smallest temple i have ever seen, it is maybe a little bigger than the stake center back home. But the spirit was there and it was probably one of the coolest experiences of my life so far. But also at the temple they had a distribution center that we were able to go shop at for a little bit. My new scriptures were falling apart, and they actually exchanged them for me, so now i am carrying around a zebra fur scripture bag with a zebra fur triple combination, like from a real zebra. I am hoping to be able to pick some up for you guys as Christmas presents.Like i said things are moving a little slow but i know it will pick up as soon as i am able to get out in the field. We drove through the heart of Johannesburg to get to the temple, all i will say is it is going to be an adventure guys haha. Traffic is crazy, i think i mentioned that in my last email. Oh yeah, about the elder with the gold tooth. His name is Elder Motlhaping (Mo-clapping) and he is probably the funniest kid here at the MTC. So his gold tooth was actually a gift from his mom (his sister has one too) for being involved in the church and just being a good kid. i guess they are cool down here, I have seen a couple of people with them. Since i mention him i should also mention Elder Bomba, he is from Zimbabwe and is one of my other favorite elders. He thinks it is so cool that i am from Las Vegas and he is the one i play soccer with (he is dang good). I gave him $20 to buy a scripture case because he didn't have one. Some of these kids have some pretty crazy lives and it is just as crazy that they ended up in the church let alone on missions. It is really humbling to be here in Africa but it has been incredible so far.I love and miss everybody. i will have more to write soon. The food here is alright, i just don't question what is in it and eat it. They have this stuff called pop that i like, basically picture cream of wheat that you put salt on and eat with your hands haha. Love you guys be safe and i will talk to you soon.
P.S My best friend at the MTC is Elder Delahoy, he is from Australia and we get along well.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

November 4, 2013


Today I did room checks and EVERY room passed inspection.
The reward was a South African candy bar....which includes snickers and kit-kat.
They were pretty excited to try out the new chocolate.





 Oh he is changing!!!  Here is another miracle.  Last night we got home late from the Temple due to rush hour traffic.  The staff was gone and so there were all of our dishes left after we ate the food that the cooks had left for us.  Elder Malloy and a few other Elders came into the kitchen and stuck right with me until all of the dishes were done.  This morning, the staff was so grateful....because they are the dishes we use for breakfast.  Elder Malloy just gets better and better!

Love,
Sister Janet Reber
South Africa MTC



Johannesburg Temple - November 5, 2013


 
Today we spent at the Johannesburg Temple.  Elder Kibirango, Elder Bomba, and Elder Nasibu received their endowment.  We had a wonderful time taking the attached photos before we went inside the Temple.  You can see from the photos how beautiful the grounds are.  There is a little stream that runs through lush folliage and trees.
It is the perfect setting for the House of the Lord.  We all enjoyed the time together, taking a break from studying, seeing something new, and of course, being inside God's Holy Temple.

Can you see the bonds of friendship and love that are developing among the Elders?  I can feel it when I look at the photos.

Love from South Africa,

Sister Janet Reber
South Africa MTC

PS: Mom and Dad are so thankful for Sister Reber!
Elder Kibirango, Elder Bomba, and Elder Nasibu received their endowment.













Sunday, November 3, 2013

Arrival October 30,2013

Dear Friends and Family
 
After 20 hours of flying and a lengthy layover in London, I have finally arrived in South Afrcia. I am sitting in the Johannesburg MTC typing this email, it still hasn't really sunk in that I am in Africa. I am excited to be here and ready to get to work. I don't remember exactly what I told you all on the pay phone in London so I will give a quick run down to this point. I flew alone from Las Vegas to London, which was a little weird to  be honest. Flying somewhere you have never been alone is a little crazy. Everyone on my flight was foreign, I think the family I sat next to was Scottish but we didn't talk much because they watched movies the whole time. When we did talk I could only understand the daughter, her mom's accent was so thick and everything she said sounded like a swear word but I had no idea so I just smiled and nodded. The flight was interesting, everything was very British/European. The flights blend together a little bit, actually the last few days do, but I remember both of the meals they gave me. The first was the weirdest "mac and cheese" I have ever had and the other was chicken with mashed potatoes. I didn't question what was in it i just ate it. When I talked to you last there were only three elders with me, but i eventually met up with 18 before the flight out of london. I like all of them, but not going to lie some are weird. Quick rundown on the elders. I really like Elder Sylvester He is from lehi and is a lot like me, I also really like Elder Thomas (Sacremento), Elder Rikz (From Austria) and Elder Bryner (SLC) and Elder Allen (Seattle and is sitting right next to me as I type this email). There is a real interesting mix of personalities and guys but everyone gets along well with each other. I think it is because we all have something in common, being missionaries. 
 
Enough about the trip, on to Africa. It is actually really cool, it looks like the pictures. Mom's blog's were right, there is barb wire and in a lot of cases electrical fencing around just about everything. Driving is crazy. There is really heavy traffic, because these big trucks break down all the time i guess. People drive however they want, so it is really frantic trying to drive through the traffic and i was just a passenger. The city is really big, and since traffic was so bad we got off on a exit and i got to see some of the townships (i stopped capitalizing things and worrying about spelling because i am running out of time on the computer, the MTC laptops have timers on them) and they are very different from the city. More or less what you think of when you think of Africa. i saw a lot of poor areas that may be in my mission, should be an adventure. Lots of soccer fields so that might be fun on P-days. I am almost out of time but i promise i will write more soon. Love you guys and miss you all.
 
oh i almost forgot to tell you guys about my companion. His name is Elder Kiribango,  he is from Ughanda and he has only been a member for a year and a half. There are a few other African Missionaries here at the MTC, they are all really cool and one straight up has a gold tooth.
 
I have way more to say, I promise i will write again soon, Love you all so much
 
Elder Malloy








The Elders come from seven different countries